tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33131983.post398173663170497999..comments2023-11-03T06:24:22.342-07:00Comments on Cog: Gay and Un-Gay Relations, Part 3: The Gay ManScothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12350801865113852319noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33131983.post-2904914533190121862007-05-03T10:07:00.000-07:002007-05-03T10:07:00.000-07:00L: “ However, I've always been more irritated with...L: “<I> However, I've always been more irritated with the situation in which those with failed marriages tell me mine certainly can't persist either (presumably because if they couldn't do it, nobody could). It hits closer to my heart, somehow.</I>”<BR/><BR/>Of course. <BR/><BR/>Part, 4 goes into just that. After, of course, I address my heart first ;-).<BR/><BR/>And thank you, Kengo.Scothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12350801865113852319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33131983.post-62024728916335705892007-05-02T19:49:00.000-07:002007-05-02T19:49:00.000-07:00Scot, I am so happy to agree with you, yet again. ...Scot, I am so happy to agree with you, yet again. I appreciate your "Middle-Path" approach in all things, and I wish that more would.Kengo Biddleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12083962910965544925noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33131983.post-28149476919335978612007-05-02T16:34:00.000-07:002007-05-02T16:34:00.000-07:00I completely agree with your assertion that an ex-...I completely agree with your assertion that an ex-gay shouldn't claim that anyone else can or should achieve anything similar by similar means. However, I've always been more irritated with the situation in which those with failed marriages tell me mine certainly can't persist either (presumably because if they couldn't do it, nobody could). It hits closer to my heart, somehow.<BR/><BR/>I'm more a fan of the idea that you can find <I>some</I> solution within your own values (whether that's ex-gay, marriage, or monogamous gay marriage) and although that solution is probably going to be different than others similarly situated, you shouldn't feel trapped into settling for something you don't think is right or changing your values for expediency.-L-https://www.blogger.com/profile/02854867259876731599noreply@blogger.com