tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33131983.post7534518409140115603..comments2023-11-03T06:24:22.342-07:00Comments on Cog: Birds and Bees... Do Stuff.Scothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12350801865113852319noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33131983.post-74793220438357778852007-05-09T12:48:00.000-07:002007-05-09T12:48:00.000-07:00"maybe I was lucky but I think some of that was ca...<I>"maybe I was lucky but I think some of that was caution and pragmatism"</I><BR/><BR/>You were lucky, Scot.<BR/><BR/>Flat out, lucky. <BR/><BR/>Gay or straight, a first-shot success story is very hard to come by.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33131983.post-48170130411609116942007-04-09T08:05:00.000-07:002007-04-09T08:05:00.000-07:00However I also trust that you know it is extremely...<I>However I also trust that you know it is extremely unusual today in either a straight or gay context. </I><BR/><BR/>Hey Paul. Yeah, I do, but the great thing about being comfortable with being gay is being utterly resigned to being unusual :-).<BR/><BR/><I>It will be interesting -- and a test of your parenting -- to see how you instill this in the boys when they become "walking hormones." </I><BR/><BR/>Great, now I’m nervous, and so early in the day :-). I know; I see their adolescence looming like a storm. I hope to prepare us and them for it far beyond necessity.Scothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12350801865113852319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33131983.post-14847099910940106532007-04-08T18:35:00.000-07:002007-04-08T18:35:00.000-07:00Scot, I've always respected your "prudish" behavio...Scot, I've always respected your "prudish" behavior and limited sexual and/or romantic experiences. It's obviously a big part of who you, and Rob, are. <BR/><BR/>However I also trust that you know it is extremely unusual today in either a straight or gay context. It will be interesting -- and a test of your parenting -- to see how you instill this in the boys when they become "walking hormones."Paulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11877772974936424670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33131983.post-7396360329114493862007-04-05T20:16:00.000-07:002007-04-05T20:16:00.000-07:00"...gay people would have to marry gorillas with c..."...gay people would have to marry gorillas with chainsaws in my backyard before any one thing in my life changed." -Seanbaby<BR/><BR/>Sean is the greatest humorist on the internets.playasinmarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05998841658611428960noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33131983.post-8824438651482164112007-04-05T08:22:00.000-07:002007-04-05T08:22:00.000-07:00I’ll link to the rest of his NSFW article.I'm stil...<I>I’ll link to the rest of his NSFW article.</I><BR/><BR/>I'm still laughing.<BR/><BR/><I>Our country protects us from that.</I><BR/><BR/>That's why, to satisfy our need to "cram it down their throats", we merely hand out 3X5 cards with very tasteful descriptions of what we do behind bedroom doors.<BR/><BR/><I>You are so flippin' great. </I><BR/><BR/>Thank you L. I am gay, though. ;-)Scothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12350801865113852319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33131983.post-73782177503863859412007-04-04T19:55:00.000-07:002007-04-04T19:55:00.000-07:00You are so flippin' great.You are so flippin' great.-L-https://www.blogger.com/profile/02854867259876731599noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33131983.post-9786231800058472772007-04-04T18:55:00.000-07:002007-04-04T18:55:00.000-07:00I hope y’all have heard of Seanbaby. If not, you’...I hope y’all have heard of Seanbaby. If not, you’re missing out.<BR/>----------<BR/>2: Grim Tolerance<BR/>The second type of person is someone who can barely put up with the fact that somewhere out there someone is being gay. They'll say things like, "I don't care what they do, as long as it's in the privacy of their own home." It's sort of a way to still totally hate the idea of gay people, but sound just tolerant enough that no one calls you names. <BR/><BR/>You'd be amazed at how rarely gay people "do what they do" anywhere where you'd come across it. The fact is, you aren't allowed to have sex outside the privacy of your own home no matter what you're having sex with. Our country protects us from that.<BR/>----------<BR/>I’ll link to the rest of his <A HREF="http://www.seanbaby.com/news/glaad2.htm" REL="nofollow">NSFW article</A>.playasinmarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05998841658611428960noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33131983.post-83778045591238209392007-04-04T12:41:00.000-07:002007-04-04T12:41:00.000-07:00I don't disagree. I do though want to make sure I...I don't disagree. <BR/><BR/>I do though want to make sure I enough emphasized my moral position in contrast to my personal tastes. In my experience, the two get mixed up too often and so I'm probably just being jumpy. But, to be clear, I've no ethical problems with sexual activity unless it breaks promises of fidelity, spreads disease, or creates unwanted children. What two adults otherwise want to do in the bedroom is out of my ethic’s jurisdiction :-).Scothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12350801865113852319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33131983.post-46852558458079709312007-04-04T00:30:00.000-07:002007-04-04T00:30:00.000-07:00This was a lovely post. Thanks. I like hearing and...This was a lovely post. Thanks. <BR/><BR/>I like hearing and exchanging views on topics like this. It helps us form a moral consensus... not by saying that we all must make the same choices, but by better understanding the choices we make. Ethical behavior takes hard work and an open heart.MoHoHawaiihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15086670779804942122noreply@blogger.com